7 Things To Do While You Are Still SINGLE
20 something years of existence on Earth taught me that being single does not mean being sad. There is actually a lot of things you can do while you're still single, and let's face it, we sometimes limit ourselves on some things when we are in a relationship no matter how great or healthy the relationship you have.
So whether you just got out of a relationship or been single all your life (don't worry, I'm sure the right one will come at the right time), here is a list of things you need to do while you are single:
1. PAMPER YOURSELF
Life is stressful that is why we need to take good care of ourselves. We need to reward ourselves for being so strong we still survive this cruel world. Have a massage, go to the spa for a facial or maybe a foot spa. Paint those pretty nails. Get a haircut or a new hairstyle. After all, we need to stay pretty because that's natural us.
2. WATCH A MOVIE
... on your own. There's nothing wrong in watching a movie alone. It's actually pretty cool. I got used to watching movies with my ex boyfriend, so I thought watching alone would be lonely, but it was relaxing. Everyone needs their solitude moment, take this chance!
3. EAT OUT WITH FRIENDS
Being in a relationship can sometimes affect the amount of time you spend with your friends. So take this moment and ask them for a lunch out or maybe just hangout on your usual spot. Being with friends would definitely get you through those 'down in the dumps' moments.
4. READ A BOOK
Being single means you don’t have to stay on the phone all the time (may it be a phone call with your sweetheart or endless texts and chats) which means you have an ample amount of time to read a book. Reading a book is not only relaxing but educational as well. No matter what genre you choose, it should leave you satisfied (or frustrated, depending on what book you’ll choose Hihi).
5. WRITE A NOVEL
I’m sure reading a book will squeeze out your creative juices. So after reading, why not try writing a novel (or maybe a poem to start with) and unleash your artistic side. Just write, nevermind if you’re not that good, we’ll never know, your works might go places.
6. TRAVEL
This one should be on anyone’s bucketlist. Travelling is not just an exhilarating experience, it is also good for the soul. “Where do broken hearts go?” according to a song I know almost all of us knows. Well, find it for yourself, travel.
7. WATCH KDRAMA
Yes. KDRAMA. Korean drama series. The best way to move on is to indulge yourself with a lot of oppas and ahjusshis. And besides, you have a lot of time to spend with your Korean Boyfriends. So don’t hold back, go binge watching now! (Believe me, it's effective.)
If you are in your early 20s like me, always remember that you have a lot of time ahead of you. It means we have a lot of time for the things we plan to do. A lot of time for our family, for the one we love and most importantly, time for ourselves. So you don't need to rush. Enjoy life!
